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Glossary

A glossary for parents

Plain-language explanations of terms you often hear in psychology.

A

Attachment
The emotional bond a child forms with their caregivers. Secure attachment helps a child feel safe while exploring the world.Related service: Attached at the Heart parent education →

E

Emotion regulation
The ability to notice, name and cope with feelings. Children learn it over time, with support from adults.Related service: Child and adolescent psychology →

M

Mental training
Work that strengthens an athlete’s mental preparation through skills like focus, goal setting, imagery and breathing.Related service: Sport psychology →

P

Perfectionism
Expecting flawlessness from yourself and meeting mistakes with harsh self-criticism. It is often linked to anxiety and burnout.
Performance anxiety
Intense tension in situations where we are evaluated, such as games, exams or performances. It can be managed with the right skills.Related service: Sport psychology →
Play-based approach
A way of working that uses play, the language children express themselves in best, to understand their feelings and experiences.Related service: Play groups →
Positive discipline
An approach to discipline based on respect, consistency and teaching rather than punishment and fear.Related service: Parent counselling →

S

Screen time
Time a child spends on phones, tablets, computers and TV. What matters is not only how long, but also the content and using screens together.Related service: Parent counselling →
Self-compassion
Treating ourselves with the same understanding and kindness we would offer someone we love when things are hard.
Separation anxiety
Strong worry a child feels when apart from a caregiver. It is natural at certain ages; if it lasts and affects daily life, support helps.Related service: Child and adolescent psychology →
Setting boundaries
Showing a child calmly and clearly what is and isn’t okay. Good boundaries make children feel safe.Related service: Parent counselling →
Sibling rivalry
Natural feelings that come up when a new sibling arrives or siblings share attention. Parents’ responses can make this easier.Related service: Parent counselling →
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